Anonymous asked: "No, I wasn't asking you to side with me. :) I needed advice. Because I only asked him to miss it this one time. And he goes twice every Sunday now. I promised him I'd go once. But this one time I just needed him to stay and talk to me. That's all. And he couldn't even do it once. I just don't understand why. I needed him."

Making him choose between you and church has probably put him in a rough spot. As long as he takes time before or after to talk to you and you know he will then don’t beat yourself up about it. Clearly if he loves you he will make time in the near future to see you but as hard as it is to hear God is most likely more important in his life.